Tuesday, March 30, 2010
dating or faking?
boyfriend...........hear this and people go crazy....every chic wants to uber by having a super sexy and hot boyfriend who must be the talk of the town...he should give her gifts every now and then and make his love public for her so tht people in fray envy her kiss her in front of every one else....bt are people today actually serious about their relationships..most people make their love public announce to the world tht its true and forever...and just a gimm away they break up and love is all of a sudden lost to such an extent that they even refuse to acknowledge each others presence in public...or work with each other profesionally..all love lost too sudden? this is the current scenario of love in the world..until yesterday this was common only to glitz and glamour but this is soon rushing to the silent world also....people date just for being the talk of town....break somebody's heart and catch another fling in such a short span of time....woah..! wasnt that love too short. love is just becoming lust today. there are very few couples who have actually fallen in love like maybe you can say oscar winners like meryl streep she has stuck to her man and so has he and have taken their relationship to the ultimate level by being married for 4 decades....perhaps our glitz girls and even other girls and guys who get into relationships for time pass should learn from them.....perhaps some one can teach people today what is love,,or else....its just a matter of a soan too let the heart break. do not fake your love to someone.infedility can shed your partner into tears. we dont want another jesse james or tiiger woods scandal all we need is true love..if all the worlds boyfriends and girlfriends understood that......if you dont love us, tell us gently and well understand. but dont two time us...or love us only for nake sake or for just ebing in a relationship. although for some peoplei love my boyfriend and so does he which is actually true at times. i hope you too......dedicated to all true lovers....and all those poeple whove been unlucky in love due to the wrong partners
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Well i agree to what you have mentioned about the love senario absolutely true .Also accept the fact that now a relationship is just the part of a show off or just to say that "i too have a boyfriend or grilfriend"or i need one as my frinds have one ,also acknowledging that not all relationships are like that,but unfortunately majority of the love prevaling within the younger generation is so.I think there is a lot of westernisation being mixed into the relationship .In be short the present relationships are just too materialistic,fashionable lossing important aspects of trust ,cooperation,understanding and forgiveness and ofcourse love,
ReplyDeleteI like it i like it...!!!!!!!!! its awesome..
ReplyDeletethnx ppl.thnx a lot
ReplyDeleteI think this all is due to....media,television and all those idiotic stuffs.....!!!
ReplyDeleteppl see serials lik "Emotional Atyachar"...splitsvilla.....wagera wagera and see those stupid ppl act how they hav multiple relationship....how they create the worlds fastest hook up's and break up's.
They feel that itz the world fashion and trend and wats wrong if we do....
Being frank todays boys hav a competition tat how many girlfrnds they hav rather then how much days they spend together.....and trust me usually the gf list is larger then number of days together.
We really need a change.
ya i agree with you today people easily get influenced by showbiz and glitz..especially since d new trend is date and dump
ReplyDeleteunderstanding ones needs is the least priority, highest being the trend, which is y i feel these cases are on rise.
ReplyDeletei appeal to first look into the individual needs before going 4 anybody or anything.
nice gurl! :)
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ReplyDeletethnx lini...tc
ReplyDeleteWondering whether I should give some gyaan.. i think i will:
ReplyDelete1. Media can never influence people as much as it is made out to be. Peer pressure drives people more.
2. The ability to fight the urge to fit-in into the peer group (or rather fight peer pressure) comes from security. Given the nature of nuclear families where parents hardly have time for their children, that security is lacking - leading to an increase in occurances of bad relationships
3. If you compare to old-times, people got married at the age of approx 16-20 yrs for girls & 22-25 yrs for boys. That is when the hormones are at their peak. With marriage moving out by atleast 5-8 yrs and puberty setting in atleast 2-3 yrs earlier, hormones need some way to sort themselves out - even if it is in the form of bad relationships.
4. Sometimes, you realize that a relationship is not meant to be only once you have been in the relationship for a while. No one is bad, they r just not right for each other. Or their expectations out of each other are not the same.
Not trying to justify anything - just providing a different perspective...
And one comment on your writing style babe - its a pleasure to read complete sentences. Try to avoid the sms-style of writing if you are considering serious writing.
Thanx fr ur views..yes i will cut down on sms style...
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