You have come to me from a distant land,
Dreamer of dreams, to fill my hearts desire,
Sweet music flowing from your nimble hand
That plays within... to light my passion's fire.
Feelings that once were hidden
Are now expressed to you.
Days that once were stormy
Are now the brightest blue.
Other men said they have seen angels,
But I have seen thee
And thou art enough.
My eyes beheld a sky one night,
It seems so long ago,
A perfectly painted portrait,
Be-speckled with blue and gold.
Every time we embrace,
I go to that far away place
When we just walk hand in hand
I’m in never, never land.
As the sun sets in the West
I am overwhelmed with a burning desire
A desire locked down deep inside
One that cannot be concealed anymore
This mystic meeting gives my heart a glow
That few have seen and only you will know.
Dreams that once were longed for
Are now all coming true.
The love I once thought was gone
I have now and forever in you.
Sunday, July 31, 2011
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Parenting :The various aspects of kid care.
Our parents......we owe our life to them. After all theyve brought us up , they love us , they care for us. They 've seen life much more then any of us kids would have ever imagined to , which not only makes them undoubtedly wise , mature and relaxed. But arent there times when we think that there is a certain gap between your caretaker and you...? Especially when it comes to talking about taboo topics.Take the first one for example:Sex.
Ahh........the word only puts us in an akward situation with our parents/guardians . You remove this word infront of them and all u get to hear is " have u learnt about sex education in high school..? " Or to add to misery......."Do u watch porn on the pc wen were not home..........dnt lie i knw u cleared the viewing history.........., if ure ever in a relationship child , tell me....dnt get physically involved.." The list never ends . I feel sex is a highly over - rated term in our country . Its almost treated as a bad word in our country .College going students feel akward watching movies like hangover and other english or indian movies which show explict love making sex scenes. Your parents do force you to change the channel when two characters in an english serial on star world are shown smooching or having sex often.
This often creates a rift between ur kid and you. So dear parent , please have trust in ur kid, we know are limits. Stop doubting us so much....install faith in us...and we promise you ill be a benificial investement..!! Stop telling girls...dont loose ur virginity before marraige....we wont.....not coz u say so....but however modern we get...we still know very well where to draw the line. Stop asking 1000 questions once u see us talking to a guy (for girls ). We are friends with everyone but not that immature that we dnt know where to wind up.
So dear parent , just take a chill pill........and be our friend by not hyping over the word sex and related terms to love and relationships . Be a friend in disguise to us...not a hurdle to our mental development.
The other problems with new age parents is :Competition. Each one wants his or child to be on top.Yes parents , we know u want the best for us...but dont pressurise us into things. Let us go on our own pace and will...and trust us , whatever we do well be the best in it..! Dont make an issue if your child got a 75 in her boards and the neighbours child got a 95...never compare....every kid is special....every child has his or her own capabilty.Agreed , marks are a potential barrier for course and career development , but an exam is tst ur knowledge at that point of time. Marks dont always tell about your actual intelligence.Next , dont bind your dreams on ur kids shoulders , let us choose our own career path .You are most welcome to advice us, we really value it...but please dont force us....dont force ur kid into covetd careers like medical , engineering ,IIT ....give him a break...all streams are good. Theres ampl scope in all. Rather in todays era , u make scope for ur stream....if ur the best...u simply make it to the top.....!!
The next issue here is adolescence. Adolescence is a stage were we undergo moodswings....and temperal behaviours. We are basically confused.Post 14 . try to be more open with your child. Try to have more mature mother /father - child conversation. This will not only build ur childs invariable trust in you , but it will also give her the power to think and make wise decisions. Ill make ur child rational. We dont like arguing with you....we also like to listen to you....but we cant be the only ones to compromise...it has to come from both sides.....we love you parents , and we always will. We know u think that were not the same with you as we are with are friends , but its not like that. Were chilled out with are friends...and we will be with you also.....if u go a step further with us...to bridge the generation gap....all can be amicable.
So dear parent , trust us and we in return will trust you. Stop checking or cell messages to know what were upto. We will never let u down. Stop jamming ur head to crack our bb /i-phone security code. Take a chill pill elder...!! Hope to see a positive reply from u parents. We love you. We rspect you. We care for you. We always have and always will. Ur simply the best...and we can be the best understanding family too.........Were not perfect kids. and nor do we wanna be. Coz we rather fall and learn to rise in each facet of life...rather than being perfect. But we can surely be good kids.
-Dedicated to all modern age families having tiffs with their teenage kids...and so on..!!
Ahh........the word only puts us in an akward situation with our parents/guardians . You remove this word infront of them and all u get to hear is " have u learnt about sex education in high school..? " Or to add to misery......."Do u watch porn on the pc wen were not home..........dnt lie i knw u cleared the viewing history.........., if ure ever in a relationship child , tell me....dnt get physically involved.." The list never ends . I feel sex is a highly over - rated term in our country . Its almost treated as a bad word in our country .College going students feel akward watching movies like hangover and other english or indian movies which show explict love making sex scenes. Your parents do force you to change the channel when two characters in an english serial on star world are shown smooching or having sex often.
This often creates a rift between ur kid and you. So dear parent , please have trust in ur kid, we know are limits. Stop doubting us so much....install faith in us...and we promise you ill be a benificial investement..!! Stop telling girls...dont loose ur virginity before marraige....we wont.....not coz u say so....but however modern we get...we still know very well where to draw the line. Stop asking 1000 questions once u see us talking to a guy (for girls ). We are friends with everyone but not that immature that we dnt know where to wind up.
So dear parent , just take a chill pill........and be our friend by not hyping over the word sex and related terms to love and relationships . Be a friend in disguise to us...not a hurdle to our mental development.
The other problems with new age parents is :Competition. Each one wants his or child to be on top.Yes parents , we know u want the best for us...but dont pressurise us into things. Let us go on our own pace and will...and trust us , whatever we do well be the best in it..! Dont make an issue if your child got a 75 in her boards and the neighbours child got a 95...never compare....every kid is special....every child has his or her own capabilty.Agreed , marks are a potential barrier for course and career development , but an exam is tst ur knowledge at that point of time. Marks dont always tell about your actual intelligence.Next , dont bind your dreams on ur kids shoulders , let us choose our own career path .You are most welcome to advice us, we really value it...but please dont force us....dont force ur kid into covetd careers like medical , engineering ,IIT ....give him a break...all streams are good. Theres ampl scope in all. Rather in todays era , u make scope for ur stream....if ur the best...u simply make it to the top.....!!
The next issue here is adolescence. Adolescence is a stage were we undergo moodswings....and temperal behaviours. We are basically confused.Post 14 . try to be more open with your child. Try to have more mature mother /father - child conversation. This will not only build ur childs invariable trust in you , but it will also give her the power to think and make wise decisions. Ill make ur child rational. We dont like arguing with you....we also like to listen to you....but we cant be the only ones to compromise...it has to come from both sides.....we love you parents , and we always will. We know u think that were not the same with you as we are with are friends , but its not like that. Were chilled out with are friends...and we will be with you also.....if u go a step further with us...to bridge the generation gap....all can be amicable.
So dear parent , trust us and we in return will trust you. Stop checking or cell messages to know what were upto. We will never let u down. Stop jamming ur head to crack our bb /i-phone security code. Take a chill pill elder...!! Hope to see a positive reply from u parents. We love you. We rspect you. We care for you. We always have and always will. Ur simply the best...and we can be the best understanding family too.........Were not perfect kids. and nor do we wanna be. Coz we rather fall and learn to rise in each facet of life...rather than being perfect. But we can surely be good kids.
-Dedicated to all modern age families having tiffs with their teenage kids...and so on..!!
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